6 financial milestones before 30

January 6th, 2009

Nine months, 17 days, 14 hours and 15 minutes.

That’s how long I have before turning the dreaded 3-0…but who’s counting?

30th-birthday-balloonActually, when I turned 29 last September everyone told me the year before 30 is the hard one because you usually have several personal milestones in your head that you’d hoped to accomplish and suddenly the deadline is looming.

And they were right. I always thought I’d be married and have a kid on the way long before I hit my 30s but I haven’t had the best of luck in the romance department. And call me old-fashioned but I’d like to be married before I have children (although that could change if marriage doesn’t seem to be on the horizon by 35…more on that later).

So anyway, I felt a little better last week when MSN Money published an article entitled “6 financial milestones before 30.” In this respect, at least, I am well on my way to accomplishing everything before 30: 

1. Scale back the credit cards

Check – My one experience with debt in college – $4,000 after a year studying abroad followed by an untimely hiring freeze in the PR industry – scared the bejesus out of me and ever since I’ve been paying off the full balance on my cards. I do charge pretty much everything to my credit card for the rewards, but I get hives even thinking about accruing interest on an unpaid balance.

2. Own a home…or have a plan

Check - Thanks to my move to Texas, where home prices are much lower than California, and some help from my parents I was able to buy a house a few years ago when I was 26. Sure, my parents charged me 5.333% interest on the loan but I couldn’t have done it without them and they taught me some valuable lessons in the process.

3. Have skills

Check-ish - I say that because while I have seven years’ experience and I’m confident in my PR skills, my niche is so small that there are not a lot of opportunities out there if I was to ever God-forbid lose my job. I’m trying to diversify by learning more marketing skills and branching out into social media (hello, blog) but I have no idea what I would do if I had to pick something completely unrelated to PR.

4. Give money away

Check - I’m sorry to say most of my progress in this category has been in the last year, although I’m starting to give more of my money away to charitable causes. My Random Acts of Kindness fund is just one of the recent steps I’ve taken in this direction.

5. Know thyself

Check - Over the last few years I’ve definitely started to define what’s important to me and my actions have slowly changed to support these priorities.  Sometimes my friends have scoffed at my frugality, but now I shake off the peer pressure by remembering the goals I’m saving toward and reminding myself what I’ve already accomplished through saving. After all, none of them have houses and many are still in debt! That said, five years ago I would have gladly chosen being “cool” and having fun over being fiscally responsible.

6. Know smart people

In progress - I consider both of my parents people I can turn to for sound financial advice, but the article goes further suggesting you have a good tax preparer, financial adviser, attorney and insurance agent, if not on speed dial then at least in your cell phone!

This one may be a toughie for me because I’ve been a little cynical of hiring advisers to help me manage my money/personal affairs ever since a financial adviser friend locked me into a horrible variable annuity.

Of course, one of my 2009 resolutions is to complete a will by the end of March so I’ll need to hire an attorney to make it official. I think the key here is to do my due diligence, interviewing several potential attorneys to find one I’m really comfortable with and one who knows their stuff. Before, I’d always take the easy route, picking the first option out of laziness or a fear of offending someone.

But no longer. After all, I’m turning 30 in just 9 months, 17 days, 13 hours and 45 minutes…


4 Responses to “6 financial milestones before 30”

  1. Ashley @ Wide Open Wallet on January 6, 2009 2009-01-06T15:00:58-07:00:00 pm

    Ok, I’m 31 so here we go.

    one and two… done and done.

    five and six… working on.

    three and four… debatable. Skills… hmm. I mean, not that I don’t have skills. I just don’t believe them to be overly marketable skills. I can make a mean cup of coffee and organize a closet in under an hour. Anyone want to pay me for that? But I’m sure I’m downplaying myself here… which brings us back to number five.

  2. Saver in the City on January 6, 2009 2009-01-06T21:09:25-07:00:09 pm

    @Ashley: I’m sure you’re downplaying yourself but even if not making a great cup of coffee and organizing closets are nothing to sneeze at…heck, look at the founders of Starbucks and I just read an article about a professional organizer who makes in the high six figures. You might be onto something!

  3. Bonnie on January 7, 2009 2009-01-07T16:39:53-07:00:39 pm

    I’m 32 and have accomplished most of the items on your list. I’m not married and don’t have any children, either, which, as you said, is not what I had planned. I thought I would get married around age 27 and have kids in the few years after that. I also don’t own a home yet. That’s because my boyfriend and I are thinking of moving to a larger city (LA, maybe, or Chicago), and we want to have flexibility. So while it’s nice to have “goals to meet before I’m 30″ or what have you, remember that your goals and priorities can and will change. And there’s nothing wrong with that. As much as I would like to be married and have a kid, I would rather be in my current situation than to have married the wrong person too young.

  4. Saver in the City on January 7, 2009 2009-01-07T21:52:45-07:00:52 pm

    @Bonnie: I couldn’t agree with you more! While I would love to be married and have kids one day, I won’t settle for someone just because I have that “goal.” BTW, good luck with your move…I’m hoping to move to LA eventually too so who knows, maybe we’ll be neighbors one day :-)

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